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The Center for Integrated Grief

Grief is Love with Nowhere to Go

Offering Compassionate and Evidence-Based Grief Therapy

The Center for Integrated Grief is a group therapy practice of former hospice social workers. We are trained in Internal Family Systems (IFS), Mindfulness, Somatic therapy and Shadow Work. These practices teach us to love all of our parts: emotions, reactions, and physical body with compassion. Working from a strengths-based perspective, we scaffold our clients for best coping day by day and week by week. This includes breath work, journaling, and contemplation.
Bring Your Whole Self
All Parts of You Are Welcome
What you push down decomposes. What you bring out of the shadows, transforms. We use a non-judgmental approach to welcome your un-welcome feelings such as shame, resentment, blame, and guilt. Shadow Work and Parts Work provide a safe way to process these feelings.

Experience growth and healing together
Here’s how our services benefit you.

Personalized Counseling Sessions
Our one-on-one sessions are tailored to your unique emotional journey, helping you navigate life’s challenges more effectively.
Expert Mental Health Guidance
Our team of experienced professionals offers a range of mental health services, providing you with trusted support and guidance.
Community-Based Approach
We believe in the power of community, fostering an environment where everyone feels heard, understood, and supported.

About Us
Guiding Hearts and Minds Towards Healing
Our philosophy is evidenced-based practice meets compassion. We have a clinical skill set and attune with our clients from a human place.

Meet Our Experienced Practitioners
Expert guidance from Carolyn Gartner and Leslie Marseglia

Carolyn Gartner, LCSW, FT, and Leslie Marseglia, LMSW, MFA, are former Brooklyn hospice social workers who offer evidence-based grief therapy services to clients throughout New York state.

Carolyn Gartner is the Founder and Director of The Center For Integrated Grief. She is a licensed clinical social worker and a Fellow in Thanatology (the study of dying, death, and bereavement) through the Association for Death Education and Counseling. Carolyn has advanced certification in Grief Counseling and Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction. She utilizes Internal Family Systems and Jungian Shadow Work.
Before becoming a therapist, Carolyn was a hospice social worker for nine years. She wrote a book about her experience: Death, Brooklyn, and the Gritty Side of Grace.
Carolyn has been interviewed by Huffpost, Parade Magazine, American Tributaries Podcast, and the documentary Paw Prints.
She earned a BFA from NYU Film School and utilizes narrative storytelling in her practice. In 2011, Carolyn took the Buddhist Refuge Vow. I have certifications in Mindfulness, grief counseling, Shadow Work, and IFS.
NY State license #: 088054
Singing is her happy place.

Leslie Marseglia is a clinical social worker in Brooklyn. She is currently enrolled in a two-year psychodynamic training program offered through the Institute of Contemporary Psychotherapy in New York City.Leslie has worked in home hospice for several years.
Leslie earned an MFA in Acting from The New School and a BFA in Drama from NYU’s Tisch School of the Arts. She credits her Meisner training to contributing to her active listening and sitting with emotions.
Born and raised in the San Francisco Bay Area, she approaches her practice from a place of compassion.
She loves to bake if someone else takes part in the eating.

How We Got Started … Therapy on the Stoop
Carolyn’s training is rooted in home hospice care in the heart of Brooklyn. Therapy was sometimes at the bedside of the dying person. In many instances, Carolyn found herself perched on the closed lid of a commode (a portable toilet) in the confines of cramped apartments, providing compassionate support to a caregiver holding the loved one’s hand.

One poignant memory stands out. A warm day as the sun dipped below the horizon, Carolyn sat on a brownstone stoop alongside a caregiver, patiently awaiting the arrival of the funeral home. This caregiver, an only child raised by a single mother, was a testament to the unique bonds formed in the face of loss.

Our Center was born out of the profound experiences gained from guiding individuals through the complexities of the end-of-life process and understanding how these experiences shape the grieving journey. We embrace a holistic approach that extends support not only to caregivers before the inevitable but also to those who are navigating the challenging path of grief afterward.

We are able to transform our experiences to serving grievers whose loved ones have died in other ways … either by suicide, accident, pregnancy loss, or natural disaster. We apply our specialized training to non-death-related losses as well — be it the dissolution of a marriage, the loss of employment, or even the abandonment of a cherished goal. Ambiguous loss, a concept we embrace, encompasses situations where closure remains elusive. We also address the intricacies of living losses, the losses that are ongoing and indefinite, intertwined with the experience of chronic illness or caregiving.

At the core of our philosophy lies the harmonious fusion of function and intuition. We seamlessly integrate clinical tools with the art of empathetic connection. We are not just professionals. We are compassionate humans attuned to the unique needs of our clients.

ACCEPTS VIRTUAL CLIENTS
We serve all of New York State virtually for both individual counseling and support groups for caregivers.
We take Medicare, Aetna and Northwell Direct Insurance.
We are accepting new clients at this time for all of our services.
Soon, we will be able to provide services in Arabic, Cantonese, and Mandarin.

Carolyn Gartner, LCSW, FT
FT: Fellow in Thanatology: Death, Dying and Bereavement
Director + Therapist
The Center for Integrated Grief
68 Jay Street, Brooklyn, New York  11201
https://integratedgrief.com/

(347) 450-4891
[email protected]
New York State

March 5, 2024 Filed Under: Accepts virtual clients, Bereavement and Grief Therapy, End-of-Life Support, New York

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