Most of these books can be found at local libraries. We highly suggest reading them to your children and grandchildren to help them understand your cancer and process their feelings. Any parent with cancer (or the partner) can request 2 free books.
We purchase our Bright Reads books directly from publishers and package them with some guides, coloring sheets, and other goodies. The program is funded through an individual sponsor and grants.
Parents really love the following books:
What Happens When Someone I Love Has Cancer by Sara Olsher
This book answers a lot of questions about cancer, provides education on treatment, and validates kids’ feelings.
Cancer Hates Kisses by Jessica Reid
I Have a Question about Cancer: Clear Answers for All Kids, including Children with Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs by Arlen Grad Gaines and Meredith Englander Polsky
Great for ANY kid who prefers logical information
The Invisible String by Patrice Karst
This book isn’t about cancer, but helps kids understand that all relationships last forever, even when people aren’t physically together. This can help children prepare for separation and death.
Grandma: A Children’s Cancer Book by Cheryl Lee-White
Ages 3-7.
My Grandma is a Cancer Fighting Queen by Chelsey Gomez
Nana, What’s Cancer? by Beverlye Hyman Fead and Tessa Mae Hammermesh
Someone I Love is Sick: Helping Very Young Children Cope with Cancer in the Family, Grandparent Version by Kathleen McCue
Books for Adults about Helping Children Through a Loved One’s Cancer Diagnosis
Can I Still Kiss You? Answering Your Children’s Questions About Cancer by Neil Russell
Cancer in the Family: Helping Children Cope with a Parent’s Illness by Sue P. Heiney, Joan F. Hermann, Katherine V. Bruss and Joy L. Fincannon
Helping Your Children Cope with Your Cancer by Peter VanDerNoot
How to Help Children Through a Parent’s Serious Illness: Supportive, Practical Advice from a Leading Child Life Specialist by Kathleen McCue
Raising An Emotionally Healthy Child When a Parent is Sick by Paula K. Rauch
When a Parent Has Cancer: A Guide to Caring for Your Children by Wendy S. Harpham
When a Parent is Seriously Ill: Practical Tips for Helping Parents and Children by Leigh Collins and Courtney Nathan
Cancer in Young Adults: Through a Parent’s Eyes by Anne Grinyer
Books for Teens about Having a Parent with Cancer
Both Sides Now by Ruth Pennebaker
Breast Cancer: Questions and Answers for Young Women by Carole G. Vogel
The Mindful Teen: Powerful Skills to Help You Handle Stress One Moment at a Time by Dzung X. Vo
My Parent Has Cancer and It Really Sucks by Marc Silver
When Your Parent Has Cancer by National Cancer Institute
Making it Mine: Stories of Teens Who Found Themselves in Their Parents’ Cancer by Brie Bernhardt
Love Sick by Harald Hermann
Books for Children who Have a Parent with Cancer … Understanding Cancer
Cancer Party!: Explain Cancer, Chemo, and Radiation to Kids in a Totally Non-Scary Way by Sara Olsher
Chemotherapy 101 for Kids: An Easy to Understand Guide for Children about Chemotherapy by Chelsey Gomez
I Have a Question about Cancer: Clear Answers for All Kids, Including Children with Autism Spectrum Disorder or Other Special Needs by Arlen Grad Gaines
Medikidz Comic books written by doctors about different cancers and treatments
Our Family Has Cancer, Too by Christine Clifford
Someone You Love Has Cancer: A Child’s Guide to Understanding by Robin Martin Duttmann
Stickers on Her Bald Head: Explaining Cancer and Chemo Hair Loss to Children in a Fun Way by Chelsey Gomez
What Happens When Someone I Love Has Cancer? by Sara Olsher
When Someone You Love Has Cancer: A Guide to Help Kids Cope by Alaric Lewis O.S.B
Feelings and Cancer
Let My Colors Out by Courtney Filigenzi
The Rainbow Feelings of Cancer: A Book for Children Who Have a Loved One with Cancer by Hohm Press
Dads with Cancer
My Dad and the Dragon by Montserrat Coughlin Kim
My Dad Has Cancer by Lauren Faye Uribe
My Dad Is a Cancer Fighting Hero by Chelsey Gomez
Our Dad Is Getting Better by Alex, Emily, and Anna Rose Silver
Also Our Mom is Getting Better
The Year My Dad Went Bald: A Tale of Cancer, Chemo, and Dealing with a Cold Head by Brian Kraft
Moms with Cancer
BK’s Mommy Has Breast Cancer by Marquita Goodluck
Butterfly Kisses and Wishes on Wings by Ellen McVicker
(Also in Spanish)
Cancer Hates Kisses by Jessica Reid Sliwerski
(Also in Spanish)
Cows on the Couch: A Cancer Story by Christine White
Fritzy Finds a Hat: A Gentle Tale to Help Talk with Children About Cancer by Scott Hamilton
The Goodbye Cancer Garden by Janna Matthies
Hair for Momma by Kelly A. Tinkham
The Hope Tree: Kids Talk About Breast Cancer by Laura Numeroff & Wendy S. Harpham
Mama’s Afro is a Soldier Too: Mom’s Cancer Diagnosis Explained by N.M. Charles
Mom and the Polka-Dot Boo Boo: A Gentle Story Explaining Breast Cancer to a Young Child by Eileen Sutherland
Mom Has Cancer! (Let’s Talk About It) by Jennifer Moore-Mallinos (Also in Spanish)
Mommy Has Cancer: What I Learned About Cancer and How I Helped My Mommy by Corey L. Stevenson Jr.
Mommy is a Cancer Warrior by Alex Bount
The Monster in Mummy: De-Monstify Cancer for Children by Donia Youssef
My Mommy is a Cancer Warrior by Jina Giusto
Nowhere Hair by Sue Glader
(Also in Spanish)
Our Mom Has Cancer American Cancer Society
The Paper Chain by Claire Blake, Eliza Blanchard, and Kathy Parkinson
Punk Wig by Lori Ries
The Year My Mother Was Bald by Ann Speltz
You Are the Best Medicine by Julie Aigner Clark
Metastatic Cancer
The Cancer That Wouldn’t Go Away: A Story for Kids about Metastatic Cancer by Hadassa Field
When Mom’s Cancer Doesn’t Go Away: Helping Children Cope with Loss and Beyond by Maryann Makekau
Books for Children about Having a Parent with Cancer IN SPANISH
El cáncer odia los besos (Cancer Hates Kisses) by Jessica Reid Sliwerski
Hablando con mis amigos de la Casa del Árbol sobre el Cáncer (Talking with My Treehouse Friends about Cancer: An Activity Book for Children of Parents with Cancer) by Peter R. van Dernoot
Besos de Mariposa y Deseos con Alas-Cuando (Butterfly Kisses and Wishes on Wings) by Ellen Vicker
¿Y el pelo? (NoWhere Hair) by Sue Glader (Thousand Words Press, 2011)
Mi Mama Tiene Cancer! (My Mom has Cancer) by Jennifer Moore-Mallinos
Activity Books for Children about Having a Parent with Cancer Life Isn’t Always A Day at the Beach: A Book for All Children Whose Lives Are Affected by Cancer by Pam Ganz
Talking with My Treehouse Friends about Cancer: An Activity Book for Children of Parents with Cancer by Peter R. van Dernoot
When Someone Has a Very Serious Illness: Children Can Learn to Cope with Loss and Change by Marge Heegaard
Books for Children to Help with Separation
The Invisible String by Patrice Karst
The Kissing Hand by Audrey Penn
Sun Kisses, Moon Hugs by Susan Schaeffer Bernardo
That’s Me Loving You by Amy Krouse Rosenthal
Wherever You Are: My Love Will Find You by Nancy Tillman
Bounce Back! by Cheri J. Meiners
The Hugging Tree: A Story About Resilience by Jill Neimark
I Can Do Hard Things by Gabi Garcia
I Can Handle It by Laurie Wright
Nothing Stays the Same, But That’s Okay by Sara Olsher
Ruby Finds a Worry by Tom Percival
What Do You Do with a Problem? by Kobi Yamada
Books for Children to Foster Mindfulness
A Handful of Quiet: Happiness in Four Pebbles by Thich Nhat Hanh
Angry Octopus: An Anger Management Story Introducing Active Progressive Muscular Relaxation and Deep Breathing by Lori Lite
Breathe Like a Bear: 30 Mindful Moments for Kids to Feel Calm and Focused Anytime, Anywhere by Kira Willey
Listening to My Body by Gabi Garcia
The Mindful Teen by Dzung X. Vo, M.D.
Puppy Mind by Andrew Jordan Nance
What Does it Mean to Be Present? by Rana DiOrio
Zen Shorts by Jon Muth
Books for Children to Help Understand and Express Emotion
B is for Breathe: The ABC’s of Coping with Fussy and Frustrating Feelings by Dr. Melissa Munro Boyd
Be Mindful of Monsters: A Book for Helping Children Accept Their Emotions by Lauren Stockley
The Boy Who Didn’t Want to Be Sad by Rob Goldblatt
The Boy with Big, Big Feelings by Brittany Winn Lee
The Feelings Book by Todd Parr
Feelings to Share from A to Z by Todd Snow
In My Heart: A Book of Feelings by Jo Witek
Let My Colors Go by Courney Filigenzi
Lots of Feelings by Shelly Rotner
My Body Sends a Signal: Helping Kids Recognize Emotions and Express Feelings by Natalia Maguire
My Many Colored Days by Dr. Seuss
The Way I Feel by Janan Cain
Today I Feel Silly by Jamie Lee Curtis
Understanding Myself: A Kid’s Guide to Intense Emotions and Strong Feelings by Mary C. Lamia
Visiting Feelings by Lauren Rubenstein
Activity Books for Children to Help Understand and Express Emotion
Drawing Together to Learn about Feelings by Marge Eaton Heegaard
Mindful Monsters Therapeutic Workbook by Lauren Stockly
Books for Children Who Have Experienced Trauma
A Terrible Thing Happened by Margaret M. Holmes
Once I Was Very, Very Scared by Chondra Gosh Ippen
Books for Adults to Help Children/Teens Cope with Grief
Guiding Your Child Through Grief by James P. Emswiler
The Grieving Child: A Parent’s Guide by Helen Fitzgerald
Healing Children’s Grief by Grace Christ
Helping Children Cope with the Loss of a Loved One: A Guide for Grown Ups by William C. Kroen
How Do We Tell the Children? A Step-by-Step Guide for Helping Children Two to Teen Cope When Someone Dies by Dan Schaefer and Christine Lyons
Preparing Your Children for Goodbye: A Guidebook for Dying Parents by Lori Hedderman
Take My Hand: Guiding Your Child Through Grief by Sharon Marshall
Talking About Death: A Dialogue Between Parent and Child by Earl A. Grollman
Books for Teens about Grief
The Grieving Teen: A Guide for Teenagers and their Friends by Helen Fitzgerald
Motherless Daughters: The Legacy of Loss by Hope Edelman
You Are Not Alone: Teens Talk about Life after the Loss of a Parent by Lynne Hughes
Weird is Normal When Teenagers Grieve by Jenny Lee Wheeler
Books for Children about Death, Dying and Grief
Always by My Side by Susan Kerner
Always Remember by Cece Meng
Badger’s Parting Gifts by Susan Varley
Can You Hear Me, Daddy? by Y. Y. Chan
The Cardinal’s Gift: A True Story of Finding Hope in Grief by Carole Heaney
Cry, Heart, But Never Break by Glenn Ringtved
Death is Stupid by Anastasia Higginbotham
Duck, Death and the Tulip by Wolf Erlbruch
Everett Anderson’s Goodbye by Lucille Clifton
The Fall of Freddie the Leaf by Leo Buscaglia
Gentle Willow: A Story for Children About Dying by Joyce C. Mills
The Gift of Gerbert’s Feathers by Meaghann Weaver
The Goodbye Book by Todd Parr
Where Do They Go? by Julia Alvarez
The Good Mourning: A Kid’s Support Guide for Grief and Mourning a Death by Seldon Peden
Grief Squad: Mom’s Sky by Susan Repa
The Heart and the Bottle by Oliver Jeffers
Ida, Always by Caron Levis
Lifetimes: A Beautiful Way to Explain Death to Children by Bryan Mellonie
Lost in the Clouds: A Gentle Story to Help Children Understand Death and Grief by Dorling Kindersley
The Memory Box: A Book About Grief by Joanna Rowland
The Memory Tree by Britta Teckentrup
I Miss You: A First Look at Death by Pat Thomas and Leslie Harker
The Next Place by Warren Hanson
Bad: A Good-Grief Guidebook for Kids Dealing with Loss by Michaelene Mundy
Samantha Jane’s Missing Smile: A Story About Coping with the Loss of a Parent by Julie Kaplow & Donna Pincus
Saying Goodbye to Daddy by Judith Vigna
Tear Soup: A Recipe for Healing after Loss by Pat Schwiebert
What Happened to Daddy’s Body? Explaining What Happens After Death in Words Very Young Children Can Understand by Elke Barber
What on Earth Do You Do When Someone Dies? by Trevor Romain
When Dinosaurs Die: A Guide to Understanding Death by Laurie Kransy Brown and Marc Brown
When Someone Dies: A Children’s Mindful How-To-Guide on Grief and Loss by Andrea Dorn
Where Are You? A Child’s Book About Loss by Laura Olivieri
Why Do I Feel So Sad? A Grief Book for Children by Tracy Lambert-Prater
Zayaquann’s Story: From Trauma to Triumph by Monica Boddie
Activity Books for Children about Death, Dying, and Grief
Help Me Say Goodbye: Activities for Helping Kids Cope When a Special Person Dies by Janis Silverman
How I Feel: Grief Journal for Kids: Guided Prompts to Explore Your Feelings and Find Peace by Mia Roldan
Our Story: A Memory Book for ___________ by Mel Erickson
The Memory Book: A Grief Journal for Children and Families by Joanna Rowland
Muddles, Puddles and Sunshine: Your Activity Book to Help When Someone Has Died by Diana Crossley
When Someone Very Special Dies: Children Can Learn to Cope with Grief by Marge Heegaard
Carissa Hodgson LCSW
Director of Programs & Community Outreach
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PO Box 3090
Alameda, CA 94501
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